2 Samuel 13

KJV · Chapter 13/24

1And it came to pass after this, that Absalom the son of David had a fair sister, whose name was Tamar; and Amnon the son of David loved her.

2And Amnon was so vexed, that he fell sick for his sister Tamar; for she was a virgin; and Amnon thought it hard for him to do any thing to her.

3But Amnon had a friend, whose name was Jonadab, the son of Shimeah David’s brother: and Jonadab was a very subtil man.

4And he said unto him, Why art thou, being the king’s son, lean from day to day? wilt thou not tell me? And Amnon said unto him, I love Tamar, my brother Absalom’s sister.

5And Jonadab said unto him, Lay thee down on thy bed, and make thyself sick: and when thy father cometh to see thee, say unto him, I pray thee, let my sister Tamar come, and give me meat, and dress the meat in my sight, that I may see it, and eat it at her hand.

6So Amnon lay down, and made himself sick: and when the king was come to see him, Amnon said unto the king, I pray thee, let Tamar my sister come, and make me a couple of cakes in my sight, that I may eat at her hand.

7Then David sent home to Tamar, saying, Go now to thy brother Amnon’s house, and dress him meat.

8So Tamar went to her brother Amnon’s house; and he was laid down. And she took flour, and kneaded it, and made cakes in his sight, and did bake the cakes.

9And she took a pan, and poured them out before him; but he refused to eat. And Amnon said, Have out all men from me. And they went out every man from him.

10And Amnon said unto Tamar, Bring the meat into the chamber, that I may eat of thine hand. And Tamar took the cakes which she had made, and brought them into the chamber to Amnon her brother.

11And when she had brought them unto him to eat, he took hold of her, and said unto her, Come lie with me, my sister.

12And she answered him, Nay, my brother, do not force me; for no such thing ought to be done in Israel: do not thou this folly.

13And I, whither shall I cause my shame to go? and as for thee, thou shalt be as one of the fools in Israel. Now therefore, I pray thee, speak unto the king; for he will not withhold me from thee.

14Howbeit he would not hearken unto her voice: but, being stronger than she, forced her, and lay with her.

15Then Amnon hated her exceedingly; so that the hatred wherewith he hated her was greater than the love wherewith he had loved her. And Amnon said unto her, Arise, be gone.

16And she said unto him, There is no cause: this evil in sending me away is greater than the other that thou didst unto me. But he would not hearken unto her.

17Then he called his servant that ministered unto him, and said, Put now this woman out from me, and bolt the door after her.

18And she had a garment of divers colours upon her: for with such robes were the king’s daughters that were virgins apparelled. Then his servant brought her out, and bolted the door after her.

19And Tamar put ashes on her head, and rent her garment of divers colours that was on her, and laid her hand on her head, and went on crying.

20And Absalom her brother said unto her, Hath Amnon thy brother been with thee? but hold now thy peace, my sister: he is thy brother; regard not this thing. So Tamar remained desolate in her brother Absalom’s house.

21But when king David heard of all these things, he was very wroth.

22And Absalom spake unto his brother Amnon neither good nor bad: for Absalom hated Amnon, because he had forced his sister Tamar.

23And it came to pass after two full years, that Absalom had sheepshearers in Baal–hazor, which is beside Ephraim: and Absalom invited all the king’s sons.

24And Absalom came to the king, and said, Behold now, thy servant hath sheepshearers; let the king, I beseech thee, and his servants go with thy servant.

25And the king said to Absalom, Nay, my son, let us not all now go, lest we be chargeable unto thee. And he pressed him: howbeit he would not go, but blessed him.

26Then said Absalom, If not, I pray thee, let my brother Amnon go with us. And the king said unto him, Why should he go with thee?

27But Absalom pressed him, that he let Amnon and all the king’s sons go with him.

28Now Absalom had commanded his servants, saying, Mark ye now when Amnon’s heart is merry with wine, and when I say unto you, Smite Amnon; then kill him, fear not: have not I commanded you? be courageous, and be valiant.

29And the servants of Absalom did unto Amnon as Absalom had commanded. Then all the king’s sons arose, and every man gat him up upon his mule, and fled.

30And it came to pass, while they were in the way, that tidings came to David, saying, Absalom hath slain all the king’s sons, and there is not one of them left.

31Then the king arose, and tare his garments, and lay on the earth; and all his servants stood by with their clothes rent.

32And Jonadab, the son of Shimeah David’s brother, answered and said, Let not my lord suppose that they have slain all the young men the king’s sons; for Amnon only is dead: for by the appointment of Absalom this hath been determined from the day that he forced his sister Tamar.

33Now therefore let not my lord the king take the thing to his heart, to think that all the king’s sons are dead: for Amnon only is dead.

34But Absalom fled. And the young man that kept the watch lifted up his eyes, and looked, and, behold, there came much people by the way of the hill side behind him.

35And Jonadab said unto the king, Behold, the king’s sons come: as thy servant said, so it is.

36And it came to pass, as soon as he had made an end of speaking, that, behold, the king’s sons came, and lifted up their voice and wept: and the king also and all his servants wept very sore.

37But Absalom fled, and went to Talmai, the son of Ammihud, king of Geshur. And David mourned for his son every day.

38So Absalom fled, and went to Geshur, and was there three years.

39And the soul of king David longed to go forth unto Absalom: for he was comforted concerning Amnon, seeing he was dead.

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Summary

Amnon, David's son, becomes obsessively infatuated with his half-sister Tamar and, with a scheme devised by his cousin Jonadab, rapes her. Absalom, Tamar's brother, nurses a silent grudge for two years before killing Amnon in revenge during a feast.

Explanation

This chapter marks the beginning of the domestic tragedy that will define the rest of David's reign, fulfilling Nathan's warning about trouble arising within his own household. David's passivity in the face of Amnon's crime — he becomes furious but never punishes his son — leaves a vacuum of justice that Absalom fills with personal vengeance, a dangerous pattern that still repeats in dysfunctional families today. It is a hard but honest story about how a lack of accountability from leaders (including parents) can spark cycles of violence.

Fun facts

  • Tamar's 'garment of many colors' was, according to the text, a distinctive robe worn by the king's virgin daughters — similar to Joseph's special coat in Genesis 37, showing how certain garments signaled social status at court.
  • Absalom waits exactly two full years before acting, a detail that reveals careful premeditation rather than a sudden outburst of rage.

Verse-by-verse explanation

  1. 2 Samuel 13:1Absalom had a beautiful sister named Tamar, and Amnon, another son of David (by a different mother), falls in love with her.
  2. 2 Samuel 13:2Amnon becomes so obsessed with Tamar that he makes himself sick with frustration, since she was a virgin and it seemed impossible to get near her.
  3. 2 Samuel 13:3Amnon had a friend named Jonadab, David’s nephew, described as a very crafty man.
  4. 2 Samuel 13:4Jonadab notices Amnon’s misery and asks the reason; Amnon confesses that he loves Tamar, the sister of his half-brother Absalom.
  5. 2 Samuel 13:5Jonadab hatches a plan: he suggests Amnon pretend to be sick and ask his father to send Tamar to prepare food for him with her own hands.
  6. 2 Samuel 13:6Amnon follows the plan, pretends to be sick in front of David, and asks that Tamar come make cakes in his sight.
  7. 2 Samuel 13:7David, suspecting nothing, sends Tamar to Amnon’s house to prepare food for her brother.
  8. 2 Samuel 13:8Tamar goes there, finds Amnon lying down, and prepares the cakes in his sight, as he asked.
  9. 2 Samuel 13:9Amnon refuses to eat and sends everyone out of the room, leaving him alone with Tamar.
  10. 2 Samuel 13:10Amnon asks Tamar to bring the food into the inner chamber, and she obeys, still not knowing what is coming.
  11. 2 Samuel 13:11When she comes near to serve him, Amnon grabs hold of her and demands that she lie with him.
  12. 2 Samuel 13:12Tamar resists firmly, telling him that such a thing is not done in Israel, and begging him not to commit this outrage.
  13. 2 Samuel 13:13Tamar suggests the king might authorize a marriage between them—a sign that, in this early period, the ban on marriage between half-siblings was not yet enforced with the strictness Levitical law would later require; it reads more as her desperate hope than a clear legal option.
  14. 2 Samuel 13:14Amnon will not listen to Tamar, and being stronger than she is, he forces her—the text narrates the assault without softening it.
  15. 2 Samuel 13:15Right afterward, Amnon’s desire turns into hatred even greater than the love he had felt, and he sends Tamar away with contempt.
  16. 2 Samuel 13:16Tamar protests that sending her away like this would be an even greater wrong than what he had already done, but Amnon will not listen to her.
  17. 2 Samuel 13:17Amnon calls his servant and orders him to put Tamar out and bolt the door behind her.
  18. 2 Samuel 13:18The “garment of divers colours” Tamar wore was the proper dress of the king’s virgin daughters—the same kind of garment (sometimes translated as a long robe) that also appears with Joseph, marking social status, not just decoration.
  19. 2 Samuel 13:19Tamar puts ashes on her head, tears the robe she is wearing, and goes away crying aloud—public gestures of mourning and shame over what she suffered.
  20. 2 Samuel 13:20Absalom realizes what happened and tells his sister to stay quiet for now, since it was her own brother who did this—and Tamar goes on to live in isolation in Absalom’s house.
  21. 2 Samuel 13:21On hearing all of this, King David becomes very angry, but the text records no concrete punishment for Amnon.
  22. 2 Samuel 13:22Absalom speaks to Amnon neither good nor bad, harboring a silent hatred for him because he had forced Tamar.
  23. 2 Samuel 13:23After two full years, Absalom holds a sheepshearing feast near Ephraim and invites all the king’s sons.
  24. 2 Samuel 13:24The sheepshearing feast was a common agricultural celebration, with drinking and a relaxed mood—Absalom picks this exact moment, knowing Amnon would have his guard down with wine, to carry out his planned revenge.
  25. 2 Samuel 13:25David declines the invitation to go along, not wanting to be a burden on his son, but blesses Absalom before he leaves anyway.
  26. 2 Samuel 13:26Absalom then asks that at least Amnon go with them, and David, not grasping the real motive, asks why Amnon in particular.
  27. 2 Samuel 13:27After pressing the point, Absalom gets David to let Amnon and all the other sons of the king go to the feast.
  28. 2 Samuel 13:28Absalom orders his servants to kill Amnon the moment his heart is merry with wine, taking full responsibility for the order himself.
  29. 2 Samuel 13:29Absalom’s servants carry out the plan against Amnon, and the king’s other sons flee in terror, each on his own mule.
  30. 2 Samuel 13:30While they are still on the road, exaggerated news reaches David that Absalom has killed all the king’s sons.
  31. 2 Samuel 13:31David rises, tears his own clothes, and lies down on the ground, and all his servants do the same in mourning.
  32. 2 Samuel 13:32Jonadab corrects the report: only Amnon was killed, for Absalom had determined this from the day he forced Tamar.
  33. 2 Samuel 13:33Jonadab urges David not to believe that all his sons are dead, insisting that only Amnon was struck down.
  34. 2 Samuel 13:34Absalom flees, and the watchman on duty sees a large crowd coming along the hillside road, from the direction the king’s sons were traveling.
  35. 2 Samuel 13:35Jonadab confirms to David that the king’s sons are arriving, exactly as he had predicted.
  36. 2 Samuel 13:36As soon as Jonadab finishes speaking, the king’s sons arrive weeping loudly, and David and all his servants weep with them, in deep grief.
  37. 2 Samuel 13:37Absalom flees to Talmai, king of Geshur, his maternal grandfather, while David mourns for his dead son a long time.
  38. 2 Samuel 13:38Absalom remains exiled in Geshur for three full years, far from his father and the kingdom.
  39. 2 Samuel 13:39With time, David is now consoled over Amnon’s death and begins to long for Absalom.

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