Sweet Words

There are days when marriage feels mechanical. You talk to each other just to sort out logistics: who's picking up the kids, what's for dinner, the bill due tomorrow. And the words left over for him end up being the most practical and the least affectionate. The Proverb reminds us that pleasant words nourish the soul — and that's not a luxury, it's a necessity. Your spouse needs to hear words from you that go beyond the functional. He needs to know that you still see him, that you still enjoy being with him, that you still admire something in him. It doesn't have to be an elaborate declaration of love. Sometimes it's a heartfelt "I'm so glad you're home." Sometimes it's a touch on the shoulder while he's watching TV. Small acts of affection are a honeycomb — sweet and nourishing for the marriage.