Day 239Closer to God — 365 Days

The Calling in Your Relationships

And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.

Ephesians 4:32

One of the most powerful expressions of Christian purpose happens in exactly the place where it's hardest: relationships.

You may be called to great public works, but the most refining calling begins at home, with the people who truly know you. With the friend who let you down. With the family member who never changes. With the husband who has worn you out. With the children who test your limits.

There, in that tight and real space, the calling takes shape. Because it's easy to love from a distance. Loving up close, with memory and history and old hurt — that's the calling that forms the character of Christ in us.

Forgiving isn't pretending it didn't hurt. It's choosing not to hold onto the debt. It's letting the grace you received flow toward someone who doesn't deserve it — because you didn't deserve what God gave you either.

May your purpose overflow into your relationships today.

Prayer

Father, make me an instrument of grace in my relationships. Where there is hurt, give forgiveness. Where there is distance, give love. Let me love as I have been loved. Amen.